Children's Mental Health Week - HOW can we help?

1-7th February is Children's Mental Health Week.

This year, more than any other, we are seeing more and more children really struggling.

Uncertainty, family stresses, financial worries at home, no school - then school - then no school, not seeing friends, no play dates, no birthday parties, no sport, no clubs, no swimming, no museums, being asked to keep away from friends in the park. 

What can we do to help them now and in the months ahead?

What practical steps and ground work can we do now?


1. A little bit of routine 

HOW can routines help our anxiety?

As adults make lots of decisions every day but so do our kids, especially teens.

What to wear, what to eat, what to do for the day, what piece of work to finish first.

If you have too many decisions to make then that this can increase anxiety

Try having some "certainty anchors” built into your day.

These are things that make parts of our day solid, anchored and unchanged. 

This is harder at the moment without our normal days.

If you take time away from the need for a decision this can reduce the anxiety. 

Bring some routine into our day, a little bit.

Routinise your morning and evening and then you can be more fluid during the day to do your school work. 

Decide what you are going to wear, what work you are going to do first, maybe even what you are going to have for breakfast. 

When you do go back to school, a bit of routine in your school day and you will reap the rewards for the rest of the day.

Not rushing out of the door while grabbing a piece of half buttered toast. 

Reducing the number of decisions that are being made at these times reduces your anxiety.

It makes sense. 

Try it. 

Nothing to loose. 



2. Dealing with Panic 

Excitement and anxiety are a similar response from the body: the flight or fight responses. The responses that have evolved from us running away from a sabre toothed tiger back in the day.

Try to reframe anxiety towards something into excitement... they are only very slightly different. 

If your anxiety is more severe remember that a panic attack, should you get them, can last 20-25 mins only.

It is super hard but try not to get anxious about being anxious. 

This feeds into a cycle of panic and anxiety and makes things a lot worse.

Try to sit it out with the knowledge that it is going to stop. 

Breathe. Slowly and deeply, distracting yourself with some music, a book or an app like Calm or Headspace... or go to your List. (see below)


3. Write a list  

Write a list of things that help you when you feel anxious or uncertain.

Things that make you happy and make you feel good about yourself. 

This list will look different for us all. 

Write it down and stick it on your wall or in your diary

  • reading a book
  • a certain playlist
  • going for a walk
  • sitting in the garden
  • playing with the dog
  • making a TikTok
  • baking a cake
  • doing a drawing
  • phoning a good friend
  • having a bath
  • scrapbooking
  • crosswords
  • playing computer games with your friends
  • sorting out your bedroom 

When you are feeling really anxious about something then go to the LIST. 

Choose something from your list and do that to try and bring your anxiety level down.



4. Control your scroll 

Really, really, really try to get some control back over the information coming to you from Social Media. YOU are in control of your scrolling.

Here is the blog written by Jess Strange mountain biker and social media influencer with some practical advice.



5. Covid Uncertainty 

Get reliable information from accredited sources only. 

NOT from your Tiktok newsfeed 

Watch Newsround rather than adult News

Don’t just scroll through your Instagram newsfeed for the latest news

Online support groups with chat options if want to talk to someone other than your parents


  • If you are worried about school remember everyone is in the same boat
  • The schools are working really hard to make things safe for you when you go back
  • It will take a while for everyone to readjust
  • The teachers are feeling exactly the same about it as you are
  • Try to stay calm and in control 
  • If you don’t feel calm go to your list
  • Ask other people how they are feeling, you will find others feel the same 
  • Look for your information from the right places
  • Basic hygiene still applies more than ever
  • WASH your hands 
  • DON’T touch your face
  • Remember we are ALL in different situations at home and under different pressures 
  • Be tolerant of others and the decisions their families are making
  • This will end, this will be time we will never forget, you are living through history






This blog was written by Dr Jo Watkins, Freelance GP and Co founder of The HOW People, with the help of advice from Professor Ann Maggs, Professor of Public Health and Psychiatry at Swansea University @profannjohn

HOW Inspire from The HOW People connects teenage girls between 11-16 yrs to role models, mentors, coaching and community in a unique and exciting digital membership platform.




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